About Melissa Brandenberger

Meet Melissa

A Heart Called to Walk Beside

Hi, I’m Melissa Brandenberger—a Marriage and Life Coach, ministry leader, and disciple of Jesus.

But before any title, I’m simply a woman who has walked through seasons of refining, surrender, which led to deep transformation.

I know what it’s like to feel weary trying to “hold it all together.”

I’ve lived through moments where the noises of life & relationships drowned out peace, where roles and responsibilities blurred identity, and where faith had to move from being believed to being deeply lived.

Over the years, the Lord has continually drawn me back to one truth:

When we let Him bring order to what’s out of alignment—everything changes.

That truth became the foundation for my work as a coach.

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My Calling

Discipleship has always been at the core of who I am. I don’t approach coaching as a business transaction but as an act of obedience—walking with people the way Jesus did: with truth, compassion, accountability, and grace.

My heart is to help women strengthen their relationship with Christ first, because everything—marriage, motherhood, calling, peace—flows from that first love.

From there, we build the practical skills needed for lasting change.

Because spiritual growth must be lived out in real life:

in how we communicate, how we set boundaries, how we respond in conflict, and how we choose to love.

Biblically Based

My Coaching Approach

I combine biblically based discipleship with research-backed coaching methods (including tools from the Gottman Institute and emotionally healthy spirituality principles).

In every session, we partner with the Holy Spirit and then with practical application.

You can expect:

A safe, grace-filled space to process what’s heavy
Tools to rebuild emotional connection and communication
Guidance to strengthen your spiritual life and personal responsibility
Gentle but direct truth
Accountability and support as you walk toward transformation

I believe change doesn’t come through willpower—it comes through revelation and daily obedience. When we live from that place, peace follows.

A Little More About Me

When I’m not coaching, you’ll usually find me doing one of three things: studying something related to marriage, parenting, or the Bible; cheering at one of my girls’ activities; or encouraging my husband in whatever adventure he’s dreaming up next. And on the rare occasion the sun makes an appearance, I’m outside soaking up every second of it. I’m also a big believer in quality time, so I treasure evenings spent with close friends, their families, and good conversation.

I’m someone who loves learning how God designed relationships to thrive — not just theoretically, but in the messy, beautiful, everyday moments. Nothing brings me more joy than helping women recognize God’s hand in their own lives and discover the freedom that comes from walking in His design with confidence, clarity, and purpose.

I am deeply passionate about breaking generational cycles, restoring God’s order in the home, and helping couples and individuals live from a place of wholeness rather than striving. I believe transformation happens when spiritual truth meets practical tools — when we learn how to grow emotionally, communicate with maturity, and surrender the parts of our story that God is still redeeming.

Everything I do flows from one simple prayer:

“Here I am, Lord. Send me.”

It is the heartbeat behind my coaching, my ministry, my marriage, my parenting, and the way I walk alongside every woman and couple God brings into my life.

Let’s Walk Together

If your heart is longing for more—more peace, more clarity, more alignment with God’s truth—this is your invitation.

You don’t have to do it alone.

There’s a path forward, and I’d be honored to walk it with you.

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